3. From polyamory to monogamy, and I’m not coping

From polyamory to monogamy, and I’m not coping

Hmmm, no. As I mentioned, this isn’t the first girl that I have been interested in. I have had two long term relationships with women within core relationships and I felt most fulfilled during that time. I am rarely attracted to anyone so that is why it hasn’t come up forbthe past two years. I consider it something that is essential to who I am, but I won’t be happy with just anyone; my drive towards multiple partners is very person-centric, rather than a desire to be with SOMEONE. I would probably never try dating websites etc. Does that make it clearer? If she’s not interested in me then she’s not interested. if we tried dating and weren’t compatible then it would end. Those parts seem very simple to me.

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