Creepers can be shameless as fuck. The real difference is, do you have a reason to be ashamed?

There are a lot of issues to be dealt with that will eventually remove shame. A quick fix for now would be to replace negative self talk with positive self talk.

Also, step out of your head and find out whether you're ashamed because you feel like you should be ashamed (in which case you definitely should) or you are ashamed because others feel like you should be (in which cause you don't always have to be).

Because seriously, there are many forms of sexual desire. A rapist doesn't become a player by removing the shame from his/her sexual desires, but a self-repressed homosexual (for example) could become the sassiest diva ever by realizing it's all good.

So before you start talking about removing shame, you should find out: what fucking shame? Are you ashamed because you wanna fuck? Get rid of it. Are you ashamed because you just asked a 68 year old you've never met if you could suck on her toes? Don't ever do that again.

It's a recurring problem with people that get into so called "game" that they either have no idea who they are from the start, lose their identity somewhere along the line, or worst case, fully adopts the mindset of their "gurus" without realizing there's a difference between people.

Just look at Mystery for example. He was one of the first mainstream pick up artists. When he invented his system, he didn't take the difference between people into account, and look where that lead them (hint: read "The Game" - to the end!)

But Mystery Method still works for one person: Mystery. Because his personality defines the "game", not the other way around.

Reject this info if you want, but don't come complaining and say nobody warned you. People just like you - people more intelligent, people stronger, people more creative, people better with women than you - have gone this route and ended up on the fucking sex offender registry, the psych ward and/or prison. (Please, no names for privacy).

It sounds negative, but that's because sometimes some of you guys really need a wake up slap. But go out and be a fucking rockstar, because you deserve it. Just don't let game define you. Go out and define what the next generation of game looks like. Be inspired - but if you are in doubt of whether you should be ashamed or not, chances are you have no clue who you are, or where you stand in relation to this art form.

Go out and be a fucking person who decides for themselves where their limits are. Test your limits, see where you stand. Break barriers and put the extra 10% in everything you do.

And remember - being an individual is not about rejecting the normal. It's about finding out in how many areas "normal" works for you, and finding out what you can replace it with in the areas where it doesn't work.