Girls, what do guys do that they think is "being manly" but in reality is the furthest thing from it?

I'm from LA and I don't think any of you girls exist out here. Every guy friend or not friend that I meet do these things that are upvoted to the top and girls just don't seem to care. I'm the only guy I know that actually doesn't do all of this shit and for some reason because I'm not tall or ripped no one notices me. I tend to accidentally get interested in girls who have boyfriends of fiancées because they see I don't do all of that bullshit, but I would never be a home-wrecker. The downside is that I don't have money or direction. I don't have my life together, I don't even drive (I get super anxious because I've had a lot of friends die in car accidents), but I still take Ubers/Lyft/buses everywhere. Sometimes I get anxiety when I have to reveal all of that to girls, but I figure I should be vulnerable and honest. Seems most girls aren't into that. Just looking for a sugar daddy or someone tall, muscular with no rhythm. At least I can move fluidly and dance to the beat.

Anyone want to grab a drink?

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