Do you guys think there’s a double standard in the gay world where bottoms get slut shamed if they were promiscuous and tops get praised as studs if they do the same thing?

That's not the point.

The point is that, during anal sex, a bottom has a higher risk of catching HIV from a top than a top has of catching HIV from a bottom. The infection pathway goes easier one way than the other.

As you can see here the risk for the receptive partner in unprotected anal sex is 102-186 infections per 10,000 exposures, while the risk for the insertive partner in unprotected anal sex is 4-28 infections per 10,000 exposures. In simple terms:

  • The man being fucked has a 1.02% - 1.86% chance of catching HIV from a HIV-positive man fucking him.

  • The man doing the fucking has a 0.04% - 0.28% chance of catching HIV from the HIV-positive man he's fucking.

On average, the risk is 12 times higher for the man being fucked than the man fucking.

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