Its still a false equivalency. There is clearly a big difference in, say, being judgmental over someone's movie tastes, and judging their personal partner choice in a hateful way.

I'm all for both sides. If you want to be frugal, be frugal, if you want to be fatfire, do so. But don't say a frugal person judging a fatfire's spending is like a homophobe judging Dave and Don.

That would be like me saying if fatfires are judgemental of frugalfi folks spending habits, they are as silly as racist Hitler judging the Jews ethnicity. Not the same. That's the kind of judgment that I feel this sub should not be about, villifying one method of saving over another.