Dude, I remember being in college (like 20) and it was the hottest thing when this guy I was friends-with-benefits with for the summer was trying to figure out what would get me off by "communicating" with me in the heat of the moment. He was like this right-off-the-bat and I can't tell you how hot his sexual confidence was and for him to ask me to explore myself sexually with him was mind-blowingly sensual and wild. He was the most fly and sexually confident guy I have ever met. While I wasn't into having a relationship with him and I've been with other people since (both casual and serious), the dude still holds the crown as the best "sexual" partner - dude was the flyest. As a service to my fellow women, I encourage you to be this confident lol