Dude, I’m not sure if you’re trolling or being serious. If you’re being serious, your problem is fixating on this.

If a girl only wanted me for my sexual organ, it would be a big turn off, an insult, and I would hate to be in that position. I would be shocked, disgusted, and want to flee. I promise you, it’s the same, and a lot of females sadly experience this a heck of a lot. Which means they will know, even if you aren’t direct about it. That’s why you have experienced them being “picky and rude”, but in actual fact, they have seen through you.

You say you deserve “female attention” and “pussy” and I don’t mean to be offensive, but you don’t deserve that. Nobody deserves it. It’s something that happens when someone genuinely likes you, unless you pay for it which will only be temporary satisfaction. So, you have to focus and work on yourself, and change your ideology.

Maybe you’re trolling, and I’m wasting my time, idk. If you aren’t - my advice is that you have a wank xD But with the post orgasm clarity or whatever it’s called, think about what you like to do. Do you have hobbies or interests? What do you enjoy to do in your spare time? Spend time finding out how you can make yourself happy other than anything sexual. Don’t think that you deserve anything, because you don’t, that’s entitlement. You have to work for everything. Work on yourself. Women are people, just like men. So talk to them like you would talk to anyone else - nothing sexual. That’s where it starts. When you genuinely like someone for who they are and not because of the sexual organ and not because you feel you deserve it, and it’s mutual - even then, “pussy” is a bonus when you genuinely like the person and they genuinely like you back. It’s only then, that you could get what you want. That’s when you don’t want female attention from anyone else, or “pussy”, you just want them.

You will probably be rejected several times, but they wouldn’t be a match for you anyways. There’s a reason for that. Work on yourself, and don’t look at women as “pussy” or people you “deserve” attention from. Work on yourself, your interests, what makes you a good person etc. If you don’t make this change, then you don’t even have a chance.