How do I [F25] give support to a major procrastionator [M26]?

Yes, he's in therapy and taking medication... For what I see, his problem is with hyperfocus where he gets warped up in an intense loop of videos on youtube and can't seem to stop, sometimes he doesn't sleep because he stayed up until 7 AM watching videos and he had to work at 10... All this while he has delayed his tasks...

You see, this is really frustrating for me because I'm a person with a set routine... Every day I wake up at the same time, I sleep at the same time and I do my chores only doing pleasant things in a certain window of time so I don't get caught up (yes, you could say I'm boring)... Part of me knows he's suffering with this and he wants to change but part of me thinks that if he really wanted he could do better(legacy from toxic parents)... So I'm trying to focus on what I can do to help and trying not to be judgmental but it really is hard for me (I'm in therapy too..

Yeah, I ended up venting a little, sorry about that... Thank you for your input, I think I have to talk more deeply about this with him...

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