I mean my husband and I just like being alone and doing our own thing so we’re compatible in that way. We have our own hobbies and We just sort of meet and do things together when we leave the house like grocery shopping or getting food, we take our showers together often (there are absolutely no distractions in the shower), and bedtime.

I imagine that this might be a compatibility issue only in that you might want a more present relationship where you do more together- and that’s perfectly okay! Don’t try to change your biggest needs (closeness and love) for the sake of the relationship because it just won’t work- you’ll be miserable.