At first when we had a problem in our relationship, I was blaming myself, I apologized and tried to do better. But now, when we have an argument, I thought what if I am right and she needs some sort of guidance? She warned me for that feeling. Her sleep pattern is a mess, she sleeps around 7 am and wakes up noon. Than she needs me at night sometimes but I become tired and have to rest because I wake up at 5.30 and work all day. I tried to encourage her for more normal sleeping hours and doing creative things but she said she can't do these. She went to a doctor to stop her medication (I didn't know at that time she is on medication), the doctor adjusted dosing for stopping and referred some other hospital. At that hospital, doctor opposed to stop medication and suggested to double the dosing.