Thank you. I have been a basket case and not a very good Dad the last 4 months between this rolling breakup, dealing with drinking issues and setting up a new house. If anything, her telling me that she loved this guy (read my post history for the background on that one) and wants to marry him was almost a relief.

Now I know exactly where I stand. I'm starting to get to the angry stage, I've made my list on my phone of all the things I didn't like about her and her shortcomings and I've looked at it about 10 times this weekend. I'm good at turning anger into motivation. So I'm going to get better and be a better person. She's going to be same person with the same issues, just papered over by yet another rebound relationship.

Good luck to you, message me if you need some support or vice versa.