I never said any generalization, what I am saying is knowing right from wrong. Look at it this way, I commented on OPs post, and here you are telling me I am making a gross generalization about what causes cheating when in fact, the jist of my comment was that he did not deserve it. And do not make an excuse that maybe he deserved it if ever he was in an abusive relationship or whatever circumstance. Two wrongs do not make anything right. Know your moral compass and values. When a person cheats on their partner, it was and will ALWAYS be a reflection of who they are, not their partner. The things you do in this world is a reflection of you, not people around you.