Ok so one thing I think you could try right now is to say that for the next 7 days you are not going to care about rings or finding a counselor. The reason is because you are married. It doesn’t really matter if you deal with this now or starting next Friday, because you have plenty of time in your lives to address this.

How does that make you feel? If you are feeling like “no we need to address this now because my husband is taking me for granted and I’m not going to spend my life with him like this”…… then I think you could think about whether or not your husbands lack of a ring bothers you because deep down YOU didn’t sign up for life.