Oh sorry. I didn't think about your kind of situation at all. But you are in a situation that is solid and there is no social problem, just a private choice.

I was focusing on the situation much more common in abortion discussions, of the unmarried. That's a problem. You don't have a problem.

Yes, of course, sex doesn't lead to kids every time, and people space their kids. I was focusing on the usual thing where a pregnancy is considered a whacky error, totally uncalled for, a mistake and a problem, an embarrassment, almost an offense, almost like burping loudly. So unfortunate and so messy. Almost ill-bred.

In short I wasn't talking about you. Sorry to have annoyed you.