It's not a double standard. In fact, under ideology of TRP, it's a bit like apples and oranges. Here's a metaphor for you. Let's say men and women meet at a bizarre to do some trading. The men all bring oranges to trade, and the woman all bring apples. Now, a woman will only trade her apple for what she thinks is the best orange on in the market. But let's say the woman goes to the market and there is only one guy with an orange. She gets impatient and goes ahead and trades her apple for this lowly orange. The man immediately and lustfully takes a bite out of the apple. The next thing you know, another man arrives at the market with a lovely orange. The woman snatches her apple back from the first man and throws his orange in the dirt, bruising it. She runs over and tries to trade her now bitten-out-of apple for this new pretty orange. But this man is smart, and he asks if he can taste the apple. She says yes, and he takes a bite. He decides it is no good and declines the trade and walks away looking for a better apple.

In this metaphor the bizarre is really the sexual marketplace. The women have what men want: apples = sex. The men have what women want: oranges = commitment (Important commitment = status, power, resources, safety, decision making, exclusivity). In the story the woman gave up her sex to the first guy that came along. Her sex was taken easily as the first man easily gives up his commitment. However, when the woman sees the new man with better resources, power, and status, she tries to offer her sex to him in exchange. He taps that, and decides he can have better without ever giving up his commitment. Remember the first man, who now has a bruised orange, is weak in commitment, or maybe got divorce-raped when the woman trashed his commitment. And the woman was loose, and gave up her sex much too easily.

The moral of the story is that men who have had sex with many women without giving up their own commitment are the dominant men. And similarly, women who have earned the commitment of more men without giving up their sex are the most desirable. A man who gives up his commitment and throws it around without thinking is a BB. A woman who lets all the men try her apple for little or lesser commitments is a slut.

Problem here is that your woman is equating herself with men (albeit unconscious due to the nature of blue pill society now). She should be proud that her man has the ability to bang all the girls but chooses you. And you should be glad that all the guys want to bang her but she only lets you.