my response was that i don't judge the people i said i don't judge.

Which was kind of uncalled for considering that was in response to someone saying they don't judge them negatively either. (Hence why the next guy said "your'e not making sense".)

read the thread.

I have, I think most people seem to just have the wrong idea about you and where you are coming from based on a misunderstanding.

"aggressively defensive" when people attack me based on things i didn't say.

I mean you were kind of just lashing out at everyone including some people who were just confused on what you were trying to say. Rather than calling names, it might have been better to just edit your original comments to avoid the miscommunications.