I'm a huge piece of shit huh? I just raise my toddler full time everyday on my own without child support from a piece of shit mother not to mention living with my daughter when she was in the hospital with extensive health issues. Huge deadbeat here. I've lived more about this issue then most ppl. Whether its from the courts to the responsibility aspect. Theres a reason that courts by default split custody 50/50 and not by who is a better parent for the child . Because its best for the child to have both parents in its life. And you know what will be a huge guarantee for the child to have both parents in its life? If both were WILLING to have the child in the first place so that they arre willing for the next 18 years t commit to do whats right by that child. So shut the fuck up with your moral granstanding