If there's one thing I know about people being preachy, it's that they're usually just as bad or worse than what they openly oppose in much of what I see today.

I use to be smacked as a child if I voiced hatred or ill will upon someone without conveying a rational point.

Basically, I was taught not to even use the phrase or anything comparable to it without great consideration.

Your personal preference, values, etc. make no difference to me if they're not harming others.

Respect, manners, integrity, common sense & many other things are lacking in the general population today.

Hate is a strong emotion that clouds judgement, adrenal/emotional impairment are real problems, they actually temporarily lower the IQ & ability to process when you're in such a state.