Oh for sure. I'd have happily walked right up to her and given her a high five. But then I'd put on inquisitive face and say: So how did you end up with noodle and his poodle there? probably not that last bit, but I wish there was a way to affirm that they are shit and she is not - but Im honestly curious about the mechanics at work, because often you see a wife in this situation frustrated, unhappy and depressed after their normalcy meters have just been beaten down repeadedly. With no boundaries enforced at all, just a lot of despair. And then you have your example of someone seriously transformed, and I just wonder, how do they still respect their SO, how do manage to stay by their side. How can you have so much spine and self awareness and boundaries of goddamn concrete barrier quality, and yet, still carry around such a load, as that husband and his leech mother? Its so confusing to me. Is it because of the baby, or children in general, that they stay with them? Or can a person have this kind of spine and yet still not be aware of their self worth and know they deserve more and better? Maybe thats the part thats confusing to me. The strong woman, and the in my mind, poor judgement. The day after day of this undercurrent of resentment and annoyance. Im honestly not trying to judge her at all, Im truely genuinely curious as to what happens inside the brain of a woman like this. I've thought about it alot, and sometimes I think it all boils down to being afraid of being alone. But that seems oversimplified as well.