I'll contribute just because I feel like it. My wife and I are not really into it, but I think I've tapped very little into some latent turn ons for her.

She's sent me pics before, and we've exchanged pics while away from each other for long periods of time. We also shot some videos of her giving a bj and actual sex.

However, she's less into that aspect of things now. The last few times I asked to make a video she said no, so I've given up.

That said, I got her into touching herself, then using a vibrator on herself, while giving me a bj, which she seems to enjoy. Other times when she's especially uninhibited, she's touched herself in front of me and watched me touch myself.

We have an upcoming night in a hotel and I was kinda hoping to move things forward a little more - like tie her to a chair and order her to touch herself while I watch.

All this said: we both have sort of "public" careers where it would be bad to have any photos floating around. So we don't really have any interest in public stuff.