My (21M) friend (19F) is “decentralising” men by talking to them less and is keeping me distant, but seemingly in frequent contact with another man(21M). We both have feelings but I don’t know if this is her way of breaking off contact. Should I cut my losses or wait for her?

Not on this post, no. I’ve gotten advice from several individuals who are mutually acquainted with her and I.

I see your point of view. Just because I challenged it doesn’t make me blind to it. An inability to understand that someone is not blind, simply looking in a different lens is ignorant.

It’s all nice to mention self awareness and “devilish” hypocrisy, but can you actually give me proof of my being that? Otherwise, you’re just using ad hominem, aren’t you?

Your last sentence alone is pathetic, assigning negative character traits, personal insults and then leaving. If you have nothing to refute, don’t speak.

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