You don't HAVE to sensor things but then you can't be surprised when people get turned off by the comments. How would it feel, to see it as choosing a different timing instead of sensoring? Timing is everything in all facets of life. That you aren't censoring yourself but just waiting for the other person to be ready to receive what you are saying? To acknowledge that everyone is different and that most people need time to talk about previous sexual experiences without feeling intimidated.

I too have no limits as to what I feel comfortable talking about! I still don't understand the shame most people feel about talking about personal things! But ive had to accept that most others do not feel this way. If i don't want to make people uncomfortable then I have to be patient and wait for them to be comfortable.