Choose whatever word you want to use instead of homophobic, but if me doing things like holding fucking hands with a woman or something like that makes you uncomfortable but you wouldn’t feel uncomfortable if I was a man, that means you don’t see our relationship as suitable for public in the same way that straight people’s would be to you, and it is because we are gay. What do you want to call that?

Nobody gives a damn if two people of opposite sex holds hands because it's extremely common. But homosexuals? That's different. That's not common. It's the same with relatives.

Some people just absolutely don't want to see that and it doesn't make them homophobic. Is someone "incestaphobic" if they don't want to see relatives holding hands or kissing in public? It's absolutely ridiculous if you're okay with homosexuals doing it but not relatives.