3. This is a long shot asking this question in here, but dumpers, why did you send ...

This is a long shot asking this question in here, but dumpers, why did you send your dumpee/ex breadcrumbs?

It's because deep down inside I think I want to get back with my ex but I don't know whether or not he hates me. I guess I send messages of support and love to make him feel better and let him know I still care about him, and to see if he's open to communicating with me. My case is special because I was the one willing to make it work and I begged for him back but he decided he didn't want to make us work. So in a way, I feel like I'm the dumpee and I'm waiting for him to reach out to me for reconciliation. I also never got a closure conversation with him and I feel like I really needed it. It's been rough. When he doesn't respond, I assume he hates me and doesn't want anything to do with me, so I stop messaging him and leave him alone.

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Is it too mean to keep your ex blocked after you've moved on? How come I’m the only one who ex’s blocked them? I suspect this is my ex's fake account. They followed me a month ago. I need advice, I'm the dumper. It really fucked me up she texted me after 7 months NC, after all she’s done, just to ask me how is my family. What do you guys think about this. Does this mean she’s regretting the breakup ? Or just curiosity Do they always come back? Has anyone ever (not necessarily this particular breakup) written the dumper any kind of note/letter that made them reconsider? hooked up with my ex today Not sure if not knowing is better HE CAME BACK TO ME!!!!!!! Is it just me or are some exes just horrible? Have you ever reached out for closure months after the BU? to the ones that discarded me and taught me I'm trash and then wrecked my life Can’t believe how much I cried in front of her Ex seems edgy, why?

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