I need advice, I'm the dumper.

It is, I'm afraid of reaching out and getting hurt. I'm considering reaching out in 1-2 months, but he would move on/find someone else by then. Honestly I don't even know if he has someone new right now since I'm not stalking him on his socials, I don't want to.

This is also a very crucial phase of my life and I absolutely cannot waste any time. So unless he's serious, I don't know how it's going to go.

I understand I'm getting down voted because of wanting to go back to someone who lied, I think it's human to miss him because we still had good times. I believe this will pass soon. I just wish he would work on himself and we could get back together sometime in the future.

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