My ex hasn’t blocked me or deleted me on any socials. She’s the dumper and she told me she found “the one” a week after our break up. It hurt. A coworker told me that either she’s lying or she’s just stupid to say that, or she cheated. Either way tho, it’s over and she’s not for you. And that’s exactly right. Maybe she’s taking a social media break idk but knowing that she’s traumatizing me is proof enough to say fuck her. I didn’t fall in love with her looks at all, I fell in love with her personality and if shes quickly moved on then her personality is shit now. It’s betrayal even if we’re not together imo. The only reason I would want to know is if she was being truthful about actually finding ‘the one’. Then maybe after I finally get over her 100%, then see if she he’s a downgrade. Not to be arrogant but everyone said I could do better looks wise, but like I said I fell deep in love w her personality so I wanted her. We did love each other but in a way I think subconsciously I was an ego boost for her and the way she was able to manipulate and gaslight me made her think I was insecure and she was above me. Idk and if that’s true then that’s shitty to do cause I didn’t care about anything but love. My advice is to first move on somewhat, enough so you don’t get hurt or obsessed, then check. Whether you are satisfied with what you see or not, improve on yourself so drastically that you become magnetic to everyone, including them. But do it for you, not for them. This love shit sucks and where all on the same boat here.