I've also been on limited contact with my ex for 6 months now and we have `1 child. Doing no contact/limit-contact is extremely difficult indeed. I've been actively working on myself. She's been messaging me at random about our child. I think it's just to start a conversation.

But overall, we've been good. She has not really been working on herself. She always goes to parties and drinks a lot. She's probably been dating/talking to like 3 guys since the BU.

She just recently text me to tell me a guy she was talking/dated for 2 months was a real POS. Of course, I started talking to her for a couple days to comfort her and now she's gone again. I was not being needy. I was being sort of strict on her. Sort of like "I told you so" but not directly.