If I can just save one person for making the same mistake I did then it was worth it. It seems based on the current marriages per year that a lot of guys are waking up to the truth, I just wish I could talk to my past self and stop it from happening.

From 2006 to 2013 we were very happy together. All that changes after marriage, she went from being 200 lbs to 290 now. Hard to maintain erection for a wife in that condition. We both avoid talking about sex at all cost, I think deep down she knows why we don't have sex anymore but I can't say it because she will get mad and/or start crying.

Once you sign that paper you pretty much signed your life away. It's a very one-sided contract. People tell you all the time not to buy a new car because it's 6 years of paying for something that's going to get worse over time. Those same people will also tell you it's okay to get married, just something to think about.