I was a little bit confused about this since there is no free will only faith in my experience someone tried to manifest me to accept him and I never wanted a person that he’s but he believed that I will say ok to this at he had a very confidant self concept guess what happened I said ok something like casting a spell on me although I had never loved that person but I said ok !!!then he had his confidence dropped after a while so I left the whole situation and to me that is a living proof that because he had a desire supported by huge faith and very confident self concept I was compelled to say ok to him which means I was compelled to be in a state to match what he intended to (that’s exactly what Neville teaches everyone will be compelled to perform their part to fulfill your desire But you should have (the ultimate faith with your desire but if its not supported by a confident self concept you will not have it The self concept is what your desire depend on to be physical . this experience proved to me that you can have anyone you want depending on your self concept.