I put a freeze on my credit last year on all three big ones for this reason.

I have to say though if you think that when the courts dont seem to recognize it or address it and treat it like its just a cutesy thing that husbands do? is what is happening, I suspect you aren't seeing the whole picture.

Not sure what you mean. There is much more than what I listed here. And I can tell you I have had police laugh at me, shake their head and walk away. Ex is very charming, charismatic, and tells them all I am mentally ill and having an "episode". The cops have lied repeatedly on reports, mediators have pushed his agenda (and come back later to apologize because they believed him, but nothing to do about it now). State Atty dropped charges because she didnt believe me. Without ever meeting me, speaking to me, or investigating anything. Ive had police walk into me, forcibly pushing me backwards down on my bed while I was shaking and crying, and based upon my attys take, to get me to push back and "resist" or something. Im not mentally ill. I have several serious medical conditions. I have no money. He has a blank check. I act professional, calm, cool, and respectful with court, with judges, with all attys. Im pretty angry, I wont lie. Im not mentally ill in any capacity, yet people believe him, and often never even ask me. I literally had a judge chuckle about my atty claiming that he (ex) hasnt provided documents, and about restraining orders (same judge). It was so patronizing, and he agreed. After over a year later he is still stalking, cyber stalking, and he just went into the foreclosed property and threatened the banks people. No one did anything. Its really hard to see the 360, especially when being deceptive or seeing the next step that he is going to take isnt my best personality strength.

If there is something here you glean from my description that I am not getting, or missing the point on, I really would value hearing about it.