I think context is really really important here and unfortunately looking on from this one post just isn’t enough information for me to say one way or another.

Agreed.

I think many of us remember being that age and wanting/liking attention from older men, and then getting to our late 20s/30s and realizing how naive we really were.

Thing for me is, i never found older guys attractive especially if they were flirty. But im also gay and, hear me out, maybe we shouldn’t just assume she’s straight? She’s only 14 after all, so let’s give her some time to figure it out maybe? And while his behavior might be creepy i just dont think its fair to make assumptions on the nature of their relationship without considering her point of view as well.