3. Mother's texting my husband

Mother's texting my husband

That's harassment. It is normal for someone to invite you to their house, or to ask if you would like to come over. Digging for information and demanding that you visit is trying to take control of your time and force you to do things.

"We have talked about this, I cannot always be there when you demand it and it would unfair and unrealistic to expect that of anyone. I will ask you if it is a good time when I am able to visit, but for the foreseeable future I have too many things going on and will not keep explaining that over and over again. And stop annoying [husband] about it. He is too kind to tell you that your way is bringing stress on us, so I am telling you now. Please stop. " Or something to that effect.

Before saying anything, though, make sure he is aware of the plan and 100% on board. Then, don't cave. She will immediately contact him to see if he has cracks in the boundaries and he should be prepared to block her number if needed.

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