My(26F) boyfriend’s(24M) sister(26F) messaged me asking for a photo of us for a gift, I don’t feel comfortable. I don’t know how to respond

I have talked to my boyfriend about how I feel and he is fully aware of what is happening, I believe she also said things to him that led him to feeling disrespected at that point in time. He also doesn’t trust her very much and she seems to be the root of many of his childhood issues/trauma so he’s been more sympathetic to how I feel tbh.

She sounds quite unsupportive of our relationship, so being asked a photo of us makes me feel kinda uncomfortable. She’s not someone I’ve met and even if all the tension wasn’t there, I would hesitate giving someone I don’t know personal photos of myself. I guess also I used to follow her socials and have seen her posting photos/videos of people’s vulnerable moments.

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