My(28) husband(28) wants to separate. I'm 6 weeks away from giving birth.

1) He is to blame for never actually talking to you about it. If he "sucked it up" for several months, but never gave you the chance to talk about it, then he is to blame. Sure that doesnt help you, but jesus that dude is dense.

2) You BOTH fucked up, by marrying and getting a kid after only 3 years of relationship. Maybe he feels "nailed down" now that he is married with kids? I'm around his age and I don't want to be nailed down like that yet. And I bet he feels the same way, he wants to explore more and isnt ready to be a family father yet.

But it seems like whatever happened he should have talked to you about it.

Is he a good father to your first kid?

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