My best friend (20F) and I (20F) made a profile on Tinder for a double date but all the guys want her.

I find that there are so many more things that are a matter of preference, often unconscious but still.

Features that are universally appealing: big eyes, smooth skin, absence of any sort of obvious deformity, and some notion of symmetry (not like a robot obviously)

Features that vary by culture and/or decade: Body type - all thin vs pear vs hourglass vs athletic Big vs small breasts Big vs small butt or thighs Tall vs short Shape of the face (round in ancient Asia, now more inverted triangle, while square jaw is attractive in the West) Pale vs tanned Freckles or no freckles Perfect teeth vs slightly crooked teeth (popular in Asia)

... The list goes on

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