Yeah you’re probably going to get a lot of comments that amount to “ignore his frustrations” or “how dare he get frustrated and not understand” but really all that’s going to do is hurt your relationship. Men have needs and pride just like women. I think it would go a long way if you explained to him that you weren’t ignoring him and it’s not that you aren’t attracted to him, you just passed out because you were tired. If he’s not ok with that explanation then ok he’s being a dick but the whole “men are abusive for expecting intimacy and I just don’t feel like doing it so fuck him” will ruin your relationship. Don’t listen to those comments.