While people were still fighting for they/them pronouns to become widely used/accepted in society, all of a sudden this influx of people came into the trans community and started shaming people who criticized neopronouns. I truly think that the popularity of this neopronoun discourse (especially on TikTok) has not only harmed the reputation of the trans community but set us back as well.

as a non-binary person, I agree with you here. I've seen a lot of neopronoun discourse, especially nounself pronouns, where people are straight up saying that you should kys if you disagree with neos. for the record, I'm not a transmedicalist, but I'm not a "tucute" either, I'm somewhere in the middle but I like this community A LOT better than the other trans/non-binary spaces