my dad has 2 other families

Did other adults in your life know that your dad was messaging you on Facebook? Is there anyone who is a grown up that you trust who you could ask to walk with you as you navigate this? A therapist or counselor is a good choice, because they haven't been hurt by anyone involved and they will advocate for you and your best choices alone. It seems like a lot for you to carry--the weight of your dad wanting a relationship with you, the shock of the truth about what he did, your grandma's very strong emotions--and you're just a kid. I feel for you OP. I hope that you can connect you with a neutral party who is only there to make sure you feel safe and healthy.

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