Hyperbole much? Calling out and explaining poor behavior isn't the same as actual name calling. I think you suffer the same issue like many from default do: lofty pride, entitlement and privilege because you've been too sheltered from basic consequences. It's the first time facing a boundary and it feels as if it's unfair for you. It's your first time experiencing humility so you draw inaccurate conclusions, equating it being to like a real oppression. You believe you should be sheltered from ever experiencing or expressing humbleness. Cuz you think it's like admittance that you're wrong and you have to relinquish your pride. Which is like death of self to you.

Hence you spent this long arguing to fling your arms up historically cuz no one is buying what you're selling.

you could have asked nicely without leading, you could have respected OP to their privacy. But again: you're too good for humbleness so that was never an option in your tool box. Just a hammer.