I'm not a loser. Not everyone can't help how we were raised by parent(s) who pushed sex-negative ideals upon us. Yea, I was the "good kid" who did what my mom told me to do and avoid sex. That makes me a loser in your book. So what if I didn't want to date someone who was experienced but wanted someone with whom I could relate to.

The ex-bf was an ass the way he treated her. He had every right to have issues with her past and used it as a deal breaker. Instead, he had issues with it, still wanted to be involved with someone who had deal breakers, and then treated her like crap through the relationship. Sounds to me like he needs to go and get his number up, that way maybe it won't be an issue for him in the future.