I completely feel for you. As a DM I'm literally about to have to have a one-on-one discussion with one of our groups' newest players because he's a "Chaotic Neutral" druid who uses a socially awkward background as an excuse to constantly be a dick to NPC's and PC's alike "because he doesn't understand social norms." As an example, the group is now down to the point where they can only get half-value out of any gemstones or other jewelry they find because in both of their interactions with the jeweler this druid has made it a point to threaten / harass / otherwise simply treat the jeweler badly. A big part of the story me and the other DM have put together for the players relies on the PC's decisions on which factions within this city to back, and they've got (well-founded) fears that this druid is going to make it so that they literally have no friends in the city and are on their own. (They don't know this, but this WILL fuck them over as the story progresses if that's the case)

So basically after last night's session everyone in the group has come to me and said that either he straightens out, RP's properly, and becomes a team player or else they're going to refuse to do sessions with him. That would, obviously, mean I'd have to ban him. Two of the players have threatened to try and PK him on the next session, they're just extremely hesitant because while they don't know his exact stats it is extremely obvious that Circle of the Moon druids are way OP at low levels.

If that doesn't scare you off though, and you really want to play - I'd be more than willing to meet up with you on roll20 or hangouts or something and do a sort of "interview" and maybe a practice session with you and your girlfriend. We're considering starting up a third session each week as a couple of veteran RPer's in our guild from another game are considering joining and (outside of the Druid) I like to think we've got a really fun group of people.