Thank you for the reply. Yes I will remain supportive and yes it hurts. I appreciate you concern for both parties.

This is the second relationship in a row for me where they came out as a lesbian. If it happened a 3rd time in a row I would just kill myself so I need to take precautions to avoid it happening again. I only date strong women and maybe I need to try to date someone more traditional and submissive. Ugh, boring.

Also about the sex thing, no she never faked. After sex she would high five me and say I was a “fucking champion” and say how good it felt. She would initiate every other week and those were the times we had the best sex. I am a very selfless lover and I have immense stamina. So I get what you are saying- faking sounds likely but she also never lies. Hence why I’m confused and still considering it not over. In retrospect she was quite a selfish lover in pretty much every aspect: emotionally, physically, and planning, and I am excited to be done with that tbh... but still worth it!

I get what you are saying about romantic attraction. That’s important to me as well. She always said she had difficulty being romantic and couldn’t keep up with my romance. This might be the answer to my question.