He responded with, "that's the problem: you're only thinking of yourself." He called me selfish to want to supportive husband.

Omg what!? I'm unsure why he agreed to marriage when he has such a backwards mindset tbh

He sounds really controlling and thats not something we're about sis. Does he think that its wrong to want to be in a loving supportive relationship???

My mum got out of a 12 year marriage because of something similar too. Your mental health is always number one and if he is the reason for causing such grief on you then imo i dont think its worth it.

You shouldnt have to ask to be treated properly it should come naturally. I'm so sorry you have to go through this and I truly pray that Allah will ease your struggles <3