Myself [30M] and my gf [25F]...I'm feeling very unfulfilled but I really care about her. Not sure what to do and don't want to lose a good thing.

Hey man. Don't really have much advice for you as such, just letting you know you're not alone. Me and my girlfriend live like about 1.5 hours apart and while by most people's standards that's not considered an ldr, it's nearly more frustrating as she's close enough that you could drive there after work, but not be there for long enough to properly relax and enjoy each other's company. She lives with her parents atm, so we also have to rent a place anytime I come to visit, and yeah it can be tough only seeing her twice a month. I'm like you, I like to see and hear and feel the person you care about, not be texting or calling all the time. The hardest part for me is wondering if we'll ever get to a point where she'll be close enough to just go for a coffee, or pop over to watch a film, it's the smallest things you feel you're missing out on . Sometimes the organising of trying to meet can take a lot of good from the situation. Even still she's an amazing girl and she's worth every bit of hassle it takes to be together. Stay strong man, if she's worth it, then do whatever it takes.

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