[ NEED ADVICE ] Am I [20/M] doing anything wrong? What do I do? (Texts included between me and her [20/F])

Sorry I didn't see your reply when I replied to grumpy but yea it can be tricky when waiting she will either try talking to you more or ask why you're not like you were before. Or she might just not be into you anymore and she won't reply much either(I've had it both ways and the latter sucks). I feel like you only need to tell her how you feel once. Exactly like you did, I've said the same thing. Letting her know you dig her then just try to get to know her better.

I'll give you an example from a girl I was talking to. So I was talking to this girl she was pretty cool but she was also talking to a friend of mine,(we didn't plan this, I'm pretty sure he was trying to cock block) I was playing it slow just going about my day and including her here and there, hanging out often and not texting much is what I mean by slow but my buddy was playing it needy and clingy like he was always texting her. She showed me a text he sent her just spilling his guts out and then she told me it turned her off because it weirded her out, he had sent a really long text talking about how she completed his life and he had never been so happy(they hadn't known each other for very long). They don't talk anymore but I still talk to her on occasions I'm pretty sure she's still interested in me.

If it doesn't work out don't be afraid to ask why it didn't. Or you could go ahead and ask her if she likes you texting the way you do. I'm not sure what kind of reply you would get so I'm not going to reccomend that while you two are talking but that's up to you.

It's kinda hard for me to give you good advice having not read all the text you're sending, so just take it slow don't push too hard. Try to hang out more often.

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