I think another form of gray rape is lying or deceiving to get into a woman’s pants. If a man says things that he knows are lies but he says them to get sex that’s rape right? Even if someone consents to sex with a man, if they did so on the idea that he planned to commit or that he had real emotions for her then she’s not really consenting and it’s rape. I had a friend who’s boyfriend had lied about loving her over the course of an entire year. She was having a lot of sex with him because she thought they were meant to be because of things he said. She wasn’t consenting to him she was consenting to a made up idea of him. That’s one of the most common forms of gray rape.