Do I need to hear about it in every space I participate in? Also no.

This, uhh, went straight over your head, huh?

I would actually like to see it differently

I don't exist to educate you and I have zero desire to do so either. Your opinions are irrelevant to my life. Meaningful change for trans women will come from grass roots work to create resources for us. Work that's already being done.

You are, to put it bluntly, irrelevant. Your opinions and feelings do not matter to my lived reality. You didn't confirm my point, you just barged into a space where you are unwanted to violate my stated boundaries in order to subject me to your transphobia.

This was not respectful. You are not respectful.