I relate to your situation. First Girlfriend of 3.5 years, wants to get more serious, wants to get married have kids some day and I'm like .... I don't feel the same. Don't get me wrong we are great but there have always been issues and things I dislike about how her that have and will never change.

For a while she would throw a bitch fit about me going gym even though we see each other every day.

It did get to a point where we would fight and she would piss me off she hit me a few times.

I still find the most annoying thing is she is not tactile and doesn't enjoy being touched or touching me. She rarely ever gives oral or takes the lead during Sex she expects to be pleasured. I still really pisses me off that she will tickle me at every opportunity I can never just stretch out and relax without getting a jab in the arm pit. Which is funny once or twice but super fucking annoying especially in the bedroom.

She just treats everything like a joke. She is selfish and lazy. She doesn't eat properly or plan ahead. She consumed social media all the time and I just feel like it's rotting her brain, some of the things she comes out with are just so absurdly stupid - like don't stare at that blind person he might see you - who the fuck says that and means it without thinking "hang on a minute".

I was trying to talk about work (really interesting law case) and she changed the subject to what she had read on Facebook about sandwiches. She can't talk about anything intellectual, she sees everything as black or white and she can't form her own opinions.

But I'm still with her because we have no reason to break up yet and we are very comfortable with each other she lives local and is an easy shag.