This this this. This sounds exactly like my last emotionally abusive relationship it's almost giving me anxiety just reading it. She was toxic as hell, but after some reflecting, I realized I was toxic too. We just we're that for each other. OP probably thinks he's the champ in this situation and in the right, but he's in the wrong too. Trust me, OP, get out asap. No part 4. No replies. Just leave Reddit and get this situation over with. You're toxic. She's toxic. And from someone who has been in almost the same exact situation (this girl sounds like she could be my ex, I swear), you can find someone better. Someone who doesn't bring out this toxicity in you. It's really a breath of the freshest air you can imagine.