Hmm... maybe my GF and I should perhaps at least once check out such a scene... as you suggest...

But, very interestingly, my GF has often expressed bi-curious tendencies, and one of her new friends (at the new place where she now works) has actually strongly flirted with both her and myself, expressing subtly (yet quite obviously) that she would be interested in a 3-some with us!

This new friend of hers, is actually super-beautiful, and super-sexy with her French accent, and is actually originally from France, but of Muslim-Moroccan descent (and she is actually somewhat religious and spiritual!).

So... as you can imagine... I was kinda shocked that a religious Muslim-chick would express interest in that! (Shocked, but in a good way!).

But I feel really nervous at the same time about this...

Nervous that if my GF and I did go down that route, that it might somehow harm our relationship... maybe... I don't know...

I once did that 3-some thing with a girl in my past (in my late teens) and it ended up really hurting our relationship...

So... ya... I really love my GF, and she's the woman of my dreams... so I would hate to lose her! :(

But then again, a 3-some with her new friend would be... totally... ultra awesome!...

(My GF is Jamaican and very hot herself... so a hot 3-some with a Jamaican chick, and French-Moroccan chick, would probably just blow my white boy mind away!)

ANYWAYS... when I examine my own inner fantasies...

I think a 3-some in that context, might be a bit more my style, as opposed to an all out orgy with strangers... I'm not sure I'm ready for that "orgy" thing... or if I will ever be...

But as you said, I've never attended such an event... so...

who knows?